Making your most intimate, important relationship a connection with someone who's actually worth your time and feelings is a gift to yourself. So if the person you are seeing always tells you how beautiful you are, but makes you feel insecure by openly flirting with other people, all of his showboating might be empty.
You are a girl, and nearby, so that makes you Perfect For Him.
You don't have to pretend to be someone else to keep him interested. I have been on 11 dates 11 DATES with a guy I couldn't bring myself to kiss more recently than I want to admit because 1 he was really interested, 2 I wasn't into anyone else was at the time, and 3 I was getting so much pressure from family and friends to just " date a dating a not good looking guy guy already," after several weird situations with jerks that I wanted to really try with this one.
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A "nice guy" usually isn't actually all that nice, but he will use his charisma to get to whatever he wants. When a person goes out of their way to wow you with their confidence, compliments, and smiles, it definitely feels good.
I would also advise against dating the " nice " guy: the guy who isn't dating a not good looking guy nicebut rather is desperate. Enjoy not having to make excuses for his bad behavior, or failure to show up, and be prepared for how happy but also slightly jealous they'll be to see you smiling all the time.
This guy is a probably a friend of a friend who randomly took his shirt off at group hang-out indoors in the wintertime while making eye contact with you and you felt so awkward about it that you had to fade out from the entire group.
You could try a few different dating apps, and maybe even capitulate to your friends who want to send you on a blind date with that really great divorce they know, and if worst comes to the worst, you could always get a dog. Dating these guys provided you're attracted to them, and it's funny how that attraction can sneak up on you , is a happy, healthy, life-affirming experience.
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